Domestic abuse is any behaviour that aims to dominate or maintain control over a partner, spouse, family member or girlfriend/boyfriend. The abuse may be physical, emotional, verbal, sexual or financial in nature. You may feel controlled, threatened, coerced or demeaned.
If you are experiencing abuse or domestic violence, you do not have to deal with this on your own. Staff from 1 hotlines that support people experiencing abuse and domestic violence in New Caledonia can help. Contact them if these signs of abuse sound familiar:
Victims of abuse and domestic violence can be in a difficult position. They once had (or still have) love for the abuser. On the other hand, they are constantly exposed to harm from someone who should love them back. This can feel puzzling and scary.
There is no universal recipe for setting free from abuse and domestic violence. However, know that many women, children, and men in New Caledonia have made it. The first step in the process is opening up to a trusted and understanding person. Then, you can find your way out.
Consider contacting a helpline in New Caledonia for free, confidential help with abuse and domestic violence today.