Helplines in Benin.

Abuse and domestic violence hotlines are available in Benin

Domestic abuse is any action intended to control or keep power over a spouse, partner, family member, or girlfriend/boyfriend. The abuse may take the form of something physical, or it may be emotional, verbal, sexual, or financial. You might feel threatened, controlled, or belittled.

If you are experiencing abuse or domestic violence, you do not have to deal with this on your own. Staff from 3 hotlines that support people experiencing abuse and domestic violence in Benin can help. Contact them if these signs of abuse sound familiar:

• Not allowing you to work or get an education
• Your partner/family member has told you they will commit suicide if you leave
• Feeling like you can’t do anything right for your partner/family member
• Your partner/family member yells at you
• You are being threatened that your children will be taken away from you
• Forcing you to use substances, lead an unhealthy lifestyle, or not take medication you need
• Believing that your partner/family member’s aggressive behavior is your fault
• Being taken advantage of financially

Victims of abuse and domestic violence can be in a difficult position. They once had (or still have) love for the abuser. On the other hand, they are constantly exposed to harm from someone who should love them back. This can feel puzzling and scary.

It’s normal if you feel isolated. Victims of abuse and domestic violence are exposed to extreme stress and often go through it alone. Even though it might feel difficult to share what you are going through, hotline staff in Benin will listen, try to understand – and help you.

If you are ready to talk to someone about your experiences of abuse or domestic violence, you can contact a hotline in Benin for free and confidential support.